UNDO, Ctrl-Z for most application. If only life itself has the power for a few UNDOs. UNDO that momment when someone close to you decided to have an overdose of medication; UNDO that second when your grandparent fell. Consequences of both incidents? Extended stay in the hospital...
The first stated incident snowballed to an extended outpour of feelings, thoughts, tears and sleeplessness. It is emotionally draining and it just emphasized the fact that "How well do you really know the people whom you are close to?" Seriously? Not even close to 70%? At least, that is what I thought. Maybe I am the one blinded and unable to look past the painted 'mask'. But then again, if one does not show the true self around your closest people, then when will the real face be unmasked?
Life's really short... is there ALWAYS other ways to solve whatever mind-boggling issues one is having? Have been asked, "If the person is really suffering for a long long time, wouldn't it be a better if the person's life is shortened by his choice?" Seriously, is there ALWAYS a solution to problem? In my opinon, yes. But then again, maybe I have not been through what the person has been through before. *touch wood*, I guess I would not want to go through it...
The second.. sigh.. old age + a fall direct on the back of her head = blood clot in the brain. The worst is the doctor actually projected the thought that she can be discharged if she really do not want to stay... I cannot imagine what will happen if my grandma has been discharged. A fall on the back of the head actually caused a blood clot on the forehead, which can be live threatening.. not "can be", should be "is" live threatening..
Just a few momments before, she is happily moving on her own in her place. Now, she's lying in the hospital, life's supported by machines and with a hole in the brain (not hole.. well, I do not know the medical term to it).
Sigh.. life's short.. and full of surprises..
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